what do you feel if ....

[dragonfly22]

what do you feel if you saw things that unsual with your partner...like pics of a guy/girl in her/his phone and saw
them going home together...etc.

[Ogre]

if it's current, it's a different story. if it's the past, it's none of your business...

pero this one hurts... (http://img264.imageshack.us/img264/5739/c1gb9wp7.jpg)

this one takes the cake though... (http://img300.imageshack.us/img300/3413/0102fa6.jpg)

[Hunny]

Depende nalang yan kung gaano mo pinagkakatiwalaan yung partner mo..
kasi kung iisipin, mababaw lang yang mga dahilan para magselos.
Mararamdaman naman kasi yun ng babae eh, wife's instinct sabi nga nila.

Masakit talaga kapag pinagtaksilan ka ng asawa, lalo na sa mga fling fling lang
or mga babaeng alam mo na.... kung sino-sinong mga lalake na nakatikim sa kanya...

Karaniwan nangyayari ang ganyan sa mga callcenters... I admit, isa yung asawa ko sa
mga natukso nung nasa callcenter pa sya... Pero tapos na yun, nagpatawad na ako at nag move on with the help of Jim and Denski...
Syempre alam nyo naman ang kasabihan, Ang lalake ilang beses man daw magkabit or maglaro ng apoy, babalik at babalik din sa asawa.... Pero di naman kami umabot sa ganyan... Hehehe... Hindi naman naging ganun ka kalalim yung extra-marital affair nya...
Pero masakit yun... Hindi na mawawala yun, lamat na sa pagsasama nyo...
Kaya guys, wag nyo sayangin yung magagandang pagsasama nyo ng asawa nyo sa fling fling lang.

[jaemee_w64]

aba, aba... clear things out...talk to your partner kung anong meron?
If they are just friends, well, ok lng cguro. get to know the other person din para safe davah...maki feeling close ka nlng din...sabi nga nila "keep your friends close but your enemies closer" :D

[Ogre]

i agree with jaemee though, you really should talk about it. you just might be putting meaning into something, then again, some hunches tend to have some grain of salt. just don't be confrontational when you talk about it and just in case, be prepared to lose the relationship...

Karaniwan nangyayari ang ganyan sa mga callcenters...you have to wonder why this is so

if we go back to the discussion on cheating, there's a reason why it happens, whether there's something wrong with the current relationship, the partner isn't exactly monogamous to begin with or his/her character isn't that grounded.

ps.
if that were true, i'm working in the wrong industry... maybe i should shift careers LOL.
seriously, i just enjoy looking at the menu, but i'm on a steady diet

[shaymavz]

dont assume things... dont be nega... ask your partner, talk to her/him...

[jaejae]

what's with the callcenters?? hehe :confused:

[jaemee_w64]

naku pareho pa kami nasa callcenter...lol
buti nlng magkasama na din sa convergys ngayon...nababantayan. hahaha.
well, even if we don't work in the same company. I trust him naman.

@sir jaejae-naku ewan pero madami talagang flirt sa mga callcenters. daming mid 20's-late 30's na single pa. mga feeling nila maganda na sila kasi nadadala ng pagiingles nila... hehehe. tapos madami din pong bading...hahaha. lahat ng klaseng tao nasa call center na kaya din cguro daming temptations.

pero syempre if you are really happy with the person you are with right now, walang temptation ang makakapagbuwag sa realtionship nyo ng partner nyo davah.

[MightyMouse]

dont assume things... dont be nega... ask your partner, talk to her/him...

two thumbs up!!!.. tama si shay. this should be the first thing that you should do..

[dragonfly22]

dont assume things... dont be nega... ask your partner, talk to her/him...

Ive already talked to my partner but she always said nothing happened between them. But one thing is for sure the third party has in love with my partner. Coz I found a little note in her wallet saying that he loves her very much. And in the cellphone too telling how much he care about her.The thing is why should my partner kept the sweet note if it is really nothing to her?????its a big question mark to me.

[jaejae]

miss jaemee, ah ok i came to think about it kasi nasa call center gf ko! hehehe :D sa bagay totoo nga yun miss jaemee...dapat gawan ng case study no? haha! by the way pareho kayo name...;)

[Denski Sison]

if it's current, it's a different story. if it's the past, it's none of your business...

pero this one hurts... (http://img264.imageshack.us/img264/5739/c1gb9wp7.jpg)

this one takes the cake though... (http://img300.imageshack.us/img300/3413/0102fa6.jpg)


I have the same answer. Infact I left my ex-wife for it years before. For the "past" and "its non of my business thing..." I view my current GF(s) past and present scandals with "gusto." hehehe

[jaejae]

Ive already talked to my partner but she always said nothing happened between them. But one thing is for sure the third party has in love with my partner. Coz I found a little note in her wallet saying that he loves her very much. And in the cellphone too telling how much he care about her.The thing is why should my partner kept the sweet note if it is really nothing to her?????its a big question mark to me.

sir, no offense ha, if and only if i were you, i cannot tolerate that...the fact that she is still texting the guy even though she knows na may gus2 sa kanya is enough for you to think na binibigyan nya ng chance yung guy...and the note, exactly...it would have been a big question mark to me also...just my opinion sir...

[Ogre]

Ive already talked to my partner but she always said nothing happened between them. But one thing is for sure the third party has in love with my partner. Coz I found a little note in her wallet saying that he loves her very much. And in the cellphone too telling how much he care about her.The thing is why should my partner kept the sweet note if it is really nothing to her?????its a big question mark to me.

unfortunately, there's probably something going on. if it weren't important, that message would have been deleted a long time ago and the note subsequently thrown away.

do yourself a favor, let her go. better now than later. hanap ka na lang ng iba... marami pa diyan...

[jaejae]

unfortunately, there's probably something going on. if it weren't important, that message would have been deleted a long time ago and the note subsequently thrown away.

do yourself a favor, let her go. better now than later. hanap ka na lang ng iba... marami pa diyan...


ot: sir ogre...dito na lng ako mag comment, at least safe naman dito, hehe :D

[imogen]

okay, let's be realistic, if you've known the guy for a while, you probably would have met all his "COUSINS" and the like....
and nobody swaps spit with some cousin (or maybe?)in front of their porch and stuff like that....
so, i wouldn't dare ask.... i dont care if this is your sister, YOU JUST DON'T DO IT!
ERGO::


CHOKESLAM!

[Hunny]

Ive already talked to my partner but she always said nothing happened between them. But one thing is for sure the third party has in love with my partner. Coz I found a little note in her wallet saying that he loves her very much. And in the cellphone too telling how much he care about her.The thing is why should my partner kept the sweet note if it is really nothing to her?????its a big question mark to me.

Sir, kung may sweet notes na na involved, ibang usapan na yan.. At bakit nasa wallet pa? Hatid nya pa yung partner mo sa bahay?
Sir, u really have to do something in order to save your relationship...
Wife mo sya sir? As in legal wife?

[xae]

okay, let's be realistic, if you've known the guy for a while, you probably would have met all his "COUSINS" and the like....
and nobody swaps spit with some cousin (or maybe?)in front of their porch and stuff like that....
so, i wouldn't dare ask.... i dont care if this is your sister, YOU JUST DON'T DO IT!
ERGO::


CHOKESLAM!


Yep. make sure of things first. wag agad mag react.
kung napatunayan...

wag lang chokeslam...

SWEET CHIN MUSIC na rin!!!

[shaymavz]

two thumbs up!!!.. tama si shay. this should be the first thing that you should do..

lahat ng bagay napag uusapan... diba sir?:D

Ive already talked to my partner but she always said nothing happened between them. But one thing is for sure the third party has in love with my partner. Coz I found a little note in her wallet saying that he loves her very much. And in the cellphone too telling how much he care about her.The thing is why should my partner kept the sweet note if it is really nothing to her?????its a big question mark to me.

baka naman sir nothing happened talaga??? talk to her again, invite her out, go to places she loves to visit, treat her to restaurant, watch movie together or attend mass together then after try to ask her again and again ...... be positive po...

[jaejae]

you might also consider the fact that she obviously has a tendency of doing it in the future...it's up to you if you dare to take the risk...

[dragonfly22]

Sir, kung may sweet notes na na involved, ibang usapan na yan.. At bakit nasa wallet pa? Hatid nya pa yung partner mo sa bahay?
Sir, u really have to do something in order to save your relationship...
Wife mo sya sir? As in legal wife?
thanks , yes mam hunny she's my legal wife..

[Hunny]

Honestly sir, hindi maganda tignan sa isang babaeng may asawa na hinahatid ng ibang lalake. Not unless cguro bestfriends talaga bago pa kayo magkakilala. Or once lor twice lang nangyari ang paghatid kasi malay mo nga naman baka di sinadya. Pero kung nagiging habit na at may sweet notes involved pa pati mga text txt, hindi naman cguro tayo manhid para di natin makita yung nangyayari dba?
Nagtataka lang ako sir, bakit nya pinapakita sayo yung sweet notes at yung may naghahatid sa kanya? Dba, ksi kung may ginagawa talaga syang hindi maganda, tatago nya yun sau.
Baka sir pinapaselos ka lang ng asawa mo...? Baka po ikaw din may problem... Baka nawawala na yung lambing mo sa kanya...

[dragonfly22]

Honestly sir, hindi maganda tignan sa isang babaeng may asawa na hinahatid ng ibang lalake. Not unless cguro bestfriends talaga bago pa kayo magkakilala. Or once lor twice lang nangyari ang paghatid kasi malay mo nga naman baka di sinadya. Pero kung nagiging habit na at may sweet notes involved pa pati mga text txt, hindi naman cguro tayo manhid para di natin makita yung nangyayari dba?
Nagtataka lang ako sir, bakit nya pinapakita sayo yung sweet notes at yung may naghahatid sa kanya? Dba, ksi kung may ginagawa talaga syang hindi maganda, tatago nya yun sau.
Baka sir pinapaselos ka lang ng asawa mo...? Baka po ikaw din may problem... Baka nawawala na yung lambing mo sa kanya...

hindi nya siandya na ipakita sa akin, ako mismo ang nag abang ng pag uwi nya at yung note ako din ang naghalungkat sa bag nya as in na naka lagay sya sa maliit na novena booklet...

[Ogre]

i guess dapat lang talaga kayo mag-usap na.... if i were in your shoes, i'd ask her to leave...

[jaejae]

i guess dapat lang talaga kayo mag-usap na.... if i were in your shoes, i'd ask her to leave...


same here...